In spite of it all....
.... The sun is already coming back.
That's what the keeping the spirit of Christmas really means. Charity is fine but not really season-specific. Families fucking suck and love is an evolutionary slave mechanism meant to make you serve your genes instead of yourself. But hope. Hope is okay. There is no such thing as good. Only disgustingly bad & okay. Hope is okay. :-)
So is sexually ambiguous pagan iconography. That's okay too.